Category: At The Table

  • Who Is My Neighbor?

    Sometimes we ask questions because we genuinely want an answer.

    And sometimes we ask questions because we’re hoping the answer will let us off the hook.

    A religious expert once stood up while Jesus was teaching and asked Him:

    “Teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?”
    — Luke 10:25

    This wasn’t a man unfamiliar with Scripture.

    Quite the opposite.

    He was an expert in the Law. He knew the commands. He knew the theology. He had probably spent years studying, memorizing, interpreting, and teaching Scripture.

    So Jesus answered his question with another question.

    “What is written in the Law? How do you read it?”

    The man knew exactly what to say.

    Love God with all your heart, soul, strength, and mind.

    And love your neighbor as yourself.

    Jesus tells him he’s answered correctly.

    “Do this and you will live.”

    And that’s where things get uncomfortable.

    Because knowing what Scripture says and actually doing what Scripture says are two very different things.

    So the man asks another question.

    “And who is my neighbor?”

    Luke tells us why he asked.

    He wanted to justify himself.

    In other words:

    Okay, Jesus. But let’s define the boundaries here.

    Who exactly am I required to love?

    Who counts?

    Surely there are limits.

    Jesus doesn’t give him a list.

    He tells him a story.

    A Man in a Ditch

    A man was traveling from Jerusalem to Jericho when robbers attacked him.

    They stripped him, beat him, and left him half dead beside the road.

    Then a priest came along.

    If anyone should have helped, surely it would be him.

    He saw the wounded man.

    And passed by on the other side.

    Then a Levite came.

    Another religious man.

    He saw him too.

    And passed by.

    We can spend a lot of time speculating about why they didn’t stop.

    Maybe they were worried about their own safety.

    Maybe they were in a hurry.

    Maybe stopping would have complicated their plans.

    Maybe they had a perfectly reasonable explanation in their own minds.

    Jesus doesn’t tell us.

    And I think that matters.

    Because whatever their reasons were, the result was the same:

    They saw a person who needed mercy and chose not to give it.

    The man in the ditch was less important than whatever made them keep walking.

    That’s uncomfortable too.

    Because sometimes we can become very skilled at explaining why someone else’s need isn’t our responsibility.

    We’re busy.

    We’re tired.

    Someone else is better equipped.

    It’s inconvenient.

    They got themselves into this mess.

    We don’t know them.

    We don’t agree with them.

    We don’t particularly like them.

    Maybe someone else will stop.

    And we keep walking.

    Then Came a Samaritan

    Jesus’ audience probably knew where this story was going.

    A priest.

    A Levite.

    And then…

    Surely the third person would finally be the good Jewish layman who did what the religious leaders failed to do.

    Except Jesus says:

    “But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was…”

    A Samaritan.

    That word doesn’t hit us the way it hit Jesus’ original audience.

    We hear “Good Samaritan” and think of a nice person who stops to change somebody’s tire.

    They heard something very different.

    The hostility between Jews and Samaritans had existed for centuries. Their history was tangled with religious disagreement, ethnic division, political conflict, and deep resentment.

    They didn’t simply disagree.

    They despised one another.

    And Jesus just made the Samaritan the hero of the story.

    He Came Where the Man Was

    The Samaritan sees the wounded man too.

    But his response is different.

    He has compassion.

    Then he moves toward him.

    He bandages his wounds.

    He uses his own supplies.

    He puts the injured man on his own animal.

    He takes him to an inn.

    He stays and cares for him.

    The next day, he pays the innkeeper and promises to cover any additional expenses when he returns.

    This wasn’t a passing moment of sympathy.

    The Samaritan’s compassion cost him something.

    Time.

    Money.

    Supplies.

    Convenience.

    Probably comfort.

    Possibly even safety.

    He didn’t simply feel badly about what had happened.

    Mercy moved him to action.

    There’s that idea again.

    What we actually believe eventually shows up in what we do.

    Jesus Changes the Question

    Remember what the lawyer asked:

    “Who is my neighbor?”

    But notice what Jesus asks at the end of the story:

    “Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?”

    Jesus changes the question.

    The lawyer wanted to know:

    Who qualifies to receive my love?

    Jesus asks:

    What kind of person are you going to be?

    That’s a very different question.

    The first lets me draw a circle.

    These people are my neighbors.

    Those people aren’t.

    These people deserve my compassion.

    Those people don’t.

    These people are my responsibility.

    Those people can be somebody else’s problem.

    But Jesus doesn’t seem particularly interested in helping us construct those boundaries.

    Instead, He shows us a man who sees suffering and crosses the boundaries anyway.

    “The One Who Had Mercy”

    Jesus asks the lawyer which man was the neighbor.

    The answer is obvious.

    And yet the lawyer can’t even bring himself to say Samaritan.

    He answers:

    “The one who had mercy on him.”

    That’s how deep the hostility ran.

    Even after hearing the story, he couldn’t say the word.

    And Jesus responds:

    “Go and do likewise.”

    Not:

    Go and agree with this.

    Not:

    Go and memorize this.

    Not:

    Go and have a really interesting theological discussion about this.

    Go and do likewise.

    The lawyer already knew the Scripture.

    That wasn’t his problem.

    The question was whether what he knew would actually change how he lived.

    The People We’d Rather Not Love

    It’s easy to love people who are easy to love.

    People who think like us.

    Vote like us.

    Worship like us.

    Look like us.

    Live like us.

    People who are grateful when we help.

    People whose choices we approve of.

    People who make us comfortable.

    But that’s not much of a test of love.

    Jesus deliberately put someone His audience despised at the center of this story.

    So perhaps we shouldn’t rush past that part.

    Who would you rather Jesus not make the Samaritan?

    Who is the person—or the kind of person—you’d rather not be obligated to love?

    Someone from a different political party?

    Someone whose theology makes you crazy?

    Someone whose lifestyle you strongly disagree with?

    Someone who has hurt you?

    Someone who has made terrible choices?

    Someone you think should know better?

    Someone who doesn’t deserve your help?

    That last one is particularly dangerous.

    Because if we’re going to start deciding who deserves mercy, Christians should probably remember how we received ours.

    Mercy Doesn’t Ask Who Deserves It

    The man lying beside the road doesn’t do anything to earn the Samaritan’s compassion.

    He can’t.

    He’s half dead.

    The Samaritan doesn’t interrogate him first.

    He doesn’t ask about his theology.

    He doesn’t ask how he votes.

    He doesn’t ask whether he made wise choices that morning.

    He doesn’t determine whether this man’s situation is partially his own fault.

    He sees someone in need.

    And he shows mercy.

    That’s not the same thing as approving of everything another person believes or does.

    Love doesn’t require us to call wrong things right.

    Jesus certainly didn’t.

    But disagreement doesn’t release us from the command to love.

    Neither does inconvenience.

    Neither does difference.

    And neither does dislike.

    Who Is My Neighbor?

    Maybe the lawyer’s question is still our question.

    Who exactly do I have to love?

    We’d like a boundary.

    Jesus gives us a Samaritan.

    We’d like a definition.

    Jesus gives us a wounded man.

    We’d like to know the minimum requirement.

    Jesus shows us costly mercy.

    And then He turns the whole question around.

    Maybe instead of asking:

    “Who is my neighbor?”

    we should ask:

    “Am I being one?”

    Because sometimes the person who knows Scripture best can still walk right past the person lying in the ditch.

    Jesus doesn’t call us merely to know what love requires.

    He says:

    “Go and do likewise.”

  • Who Told You That You Were Naked?

    There was a time when shame didn’t exist.

    That’s difficult for me to even imagine.

    Genesis 2 ends with Adam and Eve naked together in the garden, and Scripture tells us they “felt no shame.”

    No guilt.

    No fear.

    No insecurity.

    No wondering what the other person was thinking.

    No need to pretend.

    No reason to hide anything from each other—or from God.

    They were completely exposed and completely unashamed.

    And then Genesis 3 happens.

    Did God Really Say?

    The serpent begins with a question:

    “Did God really say…?”
    — Genesis 3:1

    It’s interesting that the first temptation recorded in Scripture begins by casting doubt on the Word of God.

    Did God really say that?

    Is that really what He meant?

    Can God really be trusted?

    The serpent tells Eve that eating the fruit won’t result in death. Instead, their eyes will be opened and they’ll become like God, knowing good and evil.

    There was just enough truth mixed into the lie to make it believable.

    Their eyes would be opened.

    They would gain knowledge they didn’t have before.

    What the serpent conveniently left out was what that knowledge would cost them.

    Adam and Eve already knew God was good.

    Everything they had experienced confirmed it.

    They lived in a world untouched by sin. No guilt. No shame. No fear. No hatred. No pain. No death.

    God had given them abundance and withheld one thing.

    And somehow, the serpent convinced them that the one thing God withheld was evidence that He couldn’t be trusted.

    They had absolutely no reason to believe God was holding out on them.

    But they did.

    And honestly, aren’t we still doing the same thing?

    God says something is good, but we decide something else looks better.

    God establishes a boundary, and we wonder why He’s keeping something from us.

    We know what He has said, but we convince ourselves that maybe our way will work out just fine.

    Adam and Eve had one prohibition.

    They broke it.

    And everything changed.

    Their Eyes Were Opened

    The serpent was right about one thing.

    Their eyes were opened.

    But the first thing Scripture tells us they noticed wasn’t some wonderful new level of enlightenment.

    It was their nakedness.

    And for the first time, they were ashamed.

    So they sewed fig leaves together and made coverings for themselves.

    Think about that progression.

    Sin.

    Shame.

    Cover.

    They had never needed to cover themselves before.

    Nothing about their physical bodies had changed.

    What changed was what sin had done inside them.

    The innocence was gone.

    And their first instinct was to cover what they suddenly believed needed to be hidden.

    Thousands of years later, we’re still sewing fig leaves.

    Ours just look different.

    We cover the parts of ourselves we don’t want anybody to see.

    We manage appearances.

    We carefully choose what people get to know.

    We hide failures.

    We hide sin.

    We hide insecurity.

    We hide pain.

    We create versions of ourselves that we think will be more acceptable than the truth.

    The coverings have changed.

    The instinct hasn’t.

    Then They Hid

    Covering themselves apparently wasn’t enough.

    When Adam and Eve heard God walking in the garden, they hid from Him.

    Sin. Shame. Cover. Hide.

    That’s what sin does.

    It doesn’t draw us toward the One who can actually deal with it.

    Our instinct is to run away from Him.

    And then God asks an extraordinary question:

    “Where are you?”
    — Genesis 3:9

    God wasn’t confused.

    He hadn’t misplaced Adam.

    He didn’t suddenly discover an empty garden and wonder where everybody had gone.

    He knew exactly where Adam was.

    And He knew exactly what Adam and Eve had done.

    Yet God came into the garden.

    He called for the people hiding from Him.

    Adam finally answers:

    “I heard you in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; so I hid.”

    And God responds:

    “Who told you that you were naked?”

    I love that question.

    Not because God needed information.

    He already knew the answer.

    But Adam had just described something that had never existed in their relationship before.

    I was afraid.

    I was ashamed.

    So I hid from You.

    Something had broken.

    And God gave Adam an opportunity to tell the truth about it.

    And Then Came the Blame

    God asks Adam whether he ate from the tree.

    This is Adam’s opportunity.

    Tell the truth.

    Own what you’ve done.

    Instead:

    “The woman you put here with me—she gave me some fruit from the tree, and I ate it.”

    There it is.

    Sin. Shame. Cover. Hide. Blame.

    And Adam manages to blame two people in one sentence.

    Eve gave him the fruit.

    But ultimately?

    God gave him Eve.

    Adam essentially says, This wouldn’t have happened if You hadn’t put this woman here.

    Then God questions Eve.

    And she does it too.

    “The serpent deceived me.”

    Nobody wants to say:

    I sinned.

    How familiar is that?

    We explain.

    We justify.

    We point toward what somebody else did first.

    We talk about our circumstances.

    We find all kinds of reasons why our behavior was understandable.

    Sometimes those circumstances really do matter.

    Other people really do sin against us.

    People hurt us.

    People deceive us.

    People fail us.

    But someone else’s sin never removes our responsibility for our own.

    Adam was responsible.

    Eve was responsible.

    And we are responsible too.

    What a Mess

    By the time God pronounces judgment, everything has changed.

    Relationships will now involve conflict.

    Work will involve struggle.

    Creation itself is affected.

    And death has entered the human story.

    What a mess.

    And none of it surprised God.

    That’s something I don’t want us to miss.

    God didn’t create the world, watch Genesis 3 happen, and suddenly have to come up with Plan B.

    He knew.

    He knew humanity would choose itself.

    He knew His creation would reject Him.

    He knew what our rebellion would cost.

    And still, He created.

    And still, He loved.

    And before humanity ever sinned, God already had a plan to reconcile sinners to Himself.

    We even get the first glimpse of it right here in Genesis 3.

    God tells the serpent that an offspring of the woman will come. The serpent will strike His heel.

    But He will crush the serpent’s head.

    The story isn’t over.

    Not even close.

    God Provides the Covering

    Adam and Eve tried to cover themselves.

    Fig leaves.

    Humanity’s first attempt at dealing with its own shame.

    It wasn’t enough.

    Later in the chapter, Scripture tells us:

    “The LORD God made garments of skin for Adam and his wife and clothed them.”
    — Genesis 3:21

    God provided what they could not adequately provide for themselves.

    There is something profoundly beautiful about that.

    They sinned against Him.

    They hid from Him.

    They blamed each other.

    Adam even blamed God.

    And God clothed them.

    There were consequences for their rebellion. Grace doesn’t mean sin doesn’t matter.

    But judgment wasn’t the end of the story.

    God was still providing.

    God was still showing mercy.

    God was already pointing toward redemption.

    We Can’t Get Back In

    Adam and Eve eventually have to leave Eden.

    God places cherubim at the entrance to guard the way to the tree of life.

    Humanity can’t simply stroll back into the garden.

    We can’t undo what happened.

    We can’t remove sin.

    We can’t make ourselves innocent again.

    We can’t manufacture our own way back into the presence of a holy God.

    We cannot save ourselves.

    If we’re going to get back into God’s presence, God Himself will have to provide the way.

    And He does.

    The rest of Scripture is the story of that rescue.

    The promise whispered in Genesis 3 becomes clearer and clearer until eventually we meet the offspring of the woman.

    Jesus.

    The One who comes to deal with the sin we couldn’t undo.

    The One who bears the judgment we deserve.

    The One who defeats death.

    The One who makes it possible for sinful people to come back into the presence of God.

    And when we reach the end of Scripture, do you know what we find?

    The tree of life.

    Again.

    What humanity lost in Genesis isn’t lost forever.

    Chaos doesn’t win.

    Sin doesn’t win.

    The serpent doesn’t win.

    Death doesn’t win.

    Jesus does.

    Where Are You?

    There’s something else about Genesis 3 that I can’t get away from.

    Adam and Eve sinned.

    Then they covered themselves.

    Then they hid.

    But God came looking.

    Maybe you’ve been hiding too.

    Maybe you’ve gotten very good at sewing fig leaves.

    Maybe you’ve carefully constructed a version of yourself that keeps anyone from seeing what you’re ashamed of.

    Maybe you’ve even convinced yourself that if God knew the whole truth about you, He wouldn’t want you anywhere near Him.

    There’s a problem with that.

    He already knows.

    God knew where Adam was.

    He knew what Adam had done.

    And He walked into the garden anyway.

    The answer to shame isn’t getting better at hiding.

    It isn’t creating a more convincing covering.

    And it certainly isn’t blaming somebody else.

    It’s coming out of hiding and telling the truth before the God who already knows it.

    Because the same God who confronted sin in the garden is the God who promised a Savior.

    The same God who pronounced judgment also provided a covering.

    And the same story that begins with humanity being driven away from the tree of life ends with redeemed humanity standing before it again.

    So maybe God’s question still deserves an answer.

    Where are you?

  • But God…

    There are two little words in Ephesians 2 that might be among my favorite words in the entire Bible:

    But God.

    You really can’t appreciate those two words, though, without reading what comes before them.

    Paul begins Ephesians 2 with some pretty terrible news.

    “As for you, you were dead in your transgressions and sins…”
    — Ephesians 2:1

    Not struggling.

    Not spiritually underperforming.

    Not mostly good but in need of a little improvement.

    Dead.

    That’s Paul’s description of humanity apart from Christ.

    And dead people are helpless.

    We like to believe that if we work hard enough, learn enough, behave well enough, go to church enough, serve enough, or clean ourselves up enough, we can somehow make ourselves acceptable to God.

    But you can’t improve your way out of being dead.

    That’s the problem.

    The Bad News Matters

    Sometimes we’re so eager to get to the good news of the gospel that we rush past the bad news.

    But if we don’t understand the problem, we’ll never understand how incredible the solution really is.

    Paul says that apart from Christ, we were spiritually dead in sin. We followed the ways of the world. We gratified the desires of our sinful nature. And we were deserving of God’s wrath.

    That’s some pretty heavy stuff.

    But we can’t understand how desperately we need a Savior until we understand how helpless we are to save ourselves.

    On our own, mankind isn’t simply in need of some assistance.

    We are helpless.

    We are hopeless.

    And then come two of the most beautiful words in Scripture.

    But God…

    “But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ…”
    — Ephesians 2:4–5

    But God.

    We were dead.

    But God.

    We couldn’t save ourselves.

    But God.

    We were deserving of wrath.

    But God.

    Our hope doesn’t begin with our goodness.

    It begins with God’s character.

    Because of His great love.

    Because He is rich in mercy.

    Because of His grace.

    God made us alive with Christ.

    Notice who is doing the work here.

    We don’t make ourselves alive.

    God does.

    We don’t earn His mercy.

    He gives it.

    We don’t perform well enough to deserve His grace.

    That’s precisely why it’s called grace.

    Grace is undeserved favor.

    Have Been Saved

    Paul continues:

    “It is by grace you have been saved…”
    — Ephesians 2:5

    I love the tense of that sentence.

    Have been saved.

    Not might be.

    Not could be if you perform well enough.

    Not will be once you’ve finally gotten your act together.

    For those who are in Christ, the work has been accomplished.

    Then Paul says it again a few verses later:

    “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast.”
    — Ephesians 2:8–9

    Our salvation is completely dependent upon what Christ has done, not what we can do.

    Church attendance won’t save you.

    Reading your Bible won’t save you.

    Serving in ministry won’t save you.

    Giving money won’t save you.

    Being nicer than your neighbor won’t save you.

    Having Christian parents won’t save you.

    Knowing all the right theological answers won’t save you.

    Those may be good things. Some are things followers of Jesus absolutely should do.

    But none of them can make a dead person alive.

    Only God can do that.

    And that’s exactly what makes grace so astonishing.

    There is nothing we can do to earn it.

    And there is nothing about us that could ever make God owe it to us.

    So Do Works Matter?

    This is where we can swing the pendulum too far in the other direction.

    If we’re saved completely by grace and not by works, does that mean it doesn’t matter how we live?

    Paul answers that in the very next verse.

    “For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.”
    — Ephesians 2:10

    Works don’t save us.

    But true saving faith produces works.

    I’ve said for years that faith is belief activated.

    Faith isn’t merely agreeing that something is true.

    Saving faith elicits a response to the gospel. It changes us. It begins changing the way we live, the way we think, the way we treat people, and what we desire.

    Not perfectly.

    Not overnight.

    And certainly not because we are trying to earn something from God.

    We obey because God has already done something in us.

    That’s an important distinction.

    Our works aren’t the cause of our salvation. They are the result of it.

    We don’t do good works so that God will make us alive.

    God makes us alive—and living people begin to live differently.

    James says much the same thing when he tells us that faith without works is dead.

    Real faith moves.

    Belief becomes action.

    No Room for Boasting

    And that’s why there is absolutely no room for boasting in the Christian life.

    If salvation depended upon my performance, I could compare my performance to yours.

    I could keep score.

    I could look at my church attendance, Bible knowledge, giving, serving, morality, or spiritual discipline and decide I’m doing pretty well.

    Maybe even better than you.

    But grace destroys that entire system.

    I brought nothing to my salvation worth boasting about.

    I was dead.

    But God made me alive.

    I was guilty.

    But God showed mercy.

    I couldn’t earn righteousness.

    But Christ gave me His.

    The gospel doesn’t leave us standing before God proudly displaying everything we’ve accomplished.

    It leaves us standing there with empty hands, completely dependent upon Jesus.

    And somehow, those empty hands receive everything.

    But God

    Maybe you’ve spent years trying to be good enough for God.

    Maybe you’ve wondered whether you’ve prayed enough, served enough, learned enough, changed enough, or finally become enough for Him to accept you.

    Ephesians 2 points us somewhere else.

    Away from ourselves.

    Away from our performance.

    Away from our ability to fix what is broken.

    And toward Christ.

    The gospel isn’t the story of humanity finally figuring out how to reach God.

    It’s the story of what God did for people who could never reach Him.

    We were dead.

    But God made us alive.

    We were hopeless.

    But God loved us.

    We could never earn salvation.

    But God gave us grace.

    And once you’ve really understood everything that comes before those two words, it’s hard not to stop for a moment when you read them.

    But God…

  • When God Calls You What You Can’t See Yet

    Several years ago, a friend asked me to go with her to an outdoor worship night at a church I had never attended.

    I like to sit near the front at things like that because if I don’t, I get distracted watching what everyone in front of me is doing. So my friend and I marched right up to the front row and sat down.

    I didn’t know anybody. I didn’t know the church. And apparently, I also didn’t know that people at this particular church did not worship quite the way I did.

    After the service, a woman walked up to me and asked, “Who are you?”

    I thought that was a little odd—and maybe a little rude—but I told her my name.

    “No,” she said. “Who are you?”

    Still rude.

    So I told her about my family and some of the things I was involved in at my church.

    “NO! WHO ARE YOU?!”

    At this point I was completely confused, so I finally said, “I am a daughter of the King!”

    She rolled her eyes so far back I thought they might get stuck.

    It turned out she was the senior pastor’s wife, and what she really wanted to know was why this stranger had marched to the front of their worship service, stood up, and thrown her hands in the air.

    Nobody did that there.

    I had no idea.

    There wasn’t anybody in front of me to watch.

    But I’ve thought about her question many times since then.

    Who are you?

    We have all kinds of ways of answering that question.

    We build our identities around our families, our jobs, our accomplishments, our relationships, our reputations, our appearance—even our failures. And the problem is that every one of those things can change.

    So what happens when something you used to define yourself disappears?

    What happens when you fail?

    When people leave?

    When the thing you thought you would be good at turns out differently than you expected?

    Who are you then?

    Gideon Had an Answer

    When we meet Gideon in Judges 6, Israel has been terrorized by the Midianites for seven years. They would wait until Israel’s crops were ready and then sweep in, taking the food and livestock and devastating the land.

    Israel was afraid.

    And Gideon was hiding.

    He was threshing wheat in a winepress—something that made very little sense. Wheat was normally threshed in the open where the wind could carry away the chaff. A winepress was a hole in the ground.

    But Gideon wasn’t trying to be efficient.

    He was trying not to be seen.

    And that is where the angel of the LORD found him.

    “The LORD is with you, mighty warrior.”
    — Judges 6:12

    Mighty warrior?

    Gideon was hiding in a hole.

    He certainly didn’t see himself that way.

    In fact, Gideon immediately began explaining why this couldn’t possibly be right. If God was really with Israel, why had all of this happened? Where were all the miracles their ancestors had talked about?

    And when God told Gideon that He was sending him to rescue Israel, Gideon had another objection.

    How could he possibly save Israel?

    His clan was weak.

    He was the least in his family.

    Gideon saw himself through his fear.

    God saw something Gideon couldn’t see yet.

    But notice God’s answer.

    He doesn’t give Gideon a motivational speech.

    He doesn’t tell him to dig deep and discover how strong he really is.

    He says:

    “I will be with you.”

    That changes everything.

    God Called Him Before He Was Brave

    One of my favorite things about Gideon’s story is that God calls him “mighty warrior” before Gideon ever does anything mighty.

    Before the army.

    Before the battle.

    Before the victory.

    Before Gideon even stops being afraid.

    God’s calling wasn’t based on Gideon’s résumé. It wasn’t based on what Gideon had already accomplished.

    And Gideon’s ability to do what God called him to do wasn’t ultimately going to depend upon Gideon’s strength.

    It depended upon the presence of God.

    That matters for us, too.

    Our identity is not ultimately defined by what we have done, what other people say about us, or even what we happen to feel about ourselves on a particular day.

    For those who are in Christ, Scripture gives us a different place to begin.

    We are new creations (2 Corinthians 5:17).

    We are God’s people, called out of darkness and into His light (1 Peter 2:9).

    We are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for the good works He has prepared for us (Ephesians 2:10).

    Before asking, What can I accomplish? maybe we need to remember whose we are.

    Obedience While You’re Still Afraid

    Then God gives Gideon something to do.

    And it isn’t leading an army.

    Not yet.

    First, God tells him to tear down his father’s altar to Baal and the Asherah pole beside it.

    So Gideon does.

    At night.

    Because he’s afraid.

    I love that detail.

    Gideon didn’t suddenly become fearless because God called him a mighty warrior.

    He obeyed while he was still afraid.

    Sometimes we imagine faithfulness as reaching a place where we’re finally confident enough, brave enough, knowledgeable enough, or spiritually mature enough to do whatever God has put in front of us.

    Gideon’s story looks different.

    His obedience began with one frightened step.

    And then another.

    He didn’t begin by leading an army.

    He began by obeying God in his own backyard.

    Maybe that’s where purpose usually begins.

    Not with knowing the entire plan.

    Not with seeing exactly where God is taking us.

    Just with doing the next thing He has put in front of us.

    Telling the truth.

    Serving someone.

    Forgiving.

    Standing for what is right.

    Opening Scripture.

    Praying.

    Taking one small step of obedience when we’d really rather stay hidden in the winepress.

    Bigger Than Gideon

    Eventually Gideon does lead Israel into battle.

    But even then, God makes sure Gideon understands where the victory will come from.

    Gideon begins with an army of 32,000 men.

    God reduces it to 300.

    Because this was never going to be a story about how impressive Gideon was.

    It was going to be a story about God.

    God’s calling was bigger than Gideon’s ability because God’s power—not Gideon’s—would accomplish it.

    Maybe that’s the part we need to remember when God puts something in front of us that feels bigger than we are.

    We may very well be right.

    Maybe it is bigger than us.

    Gideon wasn’t wrong when he recognized his weakness.

    He was wrong when he assumed his weakness meant God couldn’t use him.

    God’s answer was never, “Gideon, you’re stronger than you think.”

    His answer was:

    “I will be with you.”

    So, Who Are You?

    Maybe you’re in a season where you don’t recognize yourself.

    Maybe something you used to build your identity around is gone.

    Maybe you’re looking at what God has put in front of you and thinking, Surely He has the wrong person.

    Maybe you’re still hiding in the winepress.

    Gideon’s story reminds us that God meets people there.

    He calls us to trust what He says more than what fear says.

    And then He asks us to take the next step.

    You don’t have to see the whole road.

    Gideon didn’t.

    You don’t have to become fearless first.

    Gideon didn’t.

    And you don’t have to manufacture enough strength to accomplish whatever God asks of you.

    Gideon couldn’t.

    You need the same thing Gideon needed:

    “I will be with you.”

    So maybe the question isn’t only:

    Who am I?

    Maybe the better question is:

    Who does God say I am—and do I trust Him enough to live like I believe Him?

  • Is Believing Enough?

    What James 2 actually means when it says faith without works is dead.

    “Faith without works is dead.”

    That’s one of those Bible verses that can make you stop for a second.

    Because wait.

    Aren’t we saved by grace through faith?

    Didn’t Paul make it abundantly clear that our works can’t save us?

    Didn’t we just establish that Jesus doesn’t need our help finishing what He accomplished on the cross?

    Yes.

    Absolutely.

    So what in the world is James doing?

    Is he contradicting Paul?

    Is he saying faith gets us started but then we have to produce enough good works to stay saved?

    Do our works somehow prove to God that we deserve the salvation He gave us?

    No.

    James isn’t telling us how to earn salvation.

    He’s asking us to think seriously about what saving faith actually is.

    And there’s a difference between believing something is true and entrusting yourself to it.

    Faith is belief activated

    I’ve been saying this for years:

    Faith is belief activated.

    I used to make the people in one of my Bible studies write it in their Bibles because I wanted them to remember the distinction.

    James makes that distinction pretty hard to miss.

    “You believe that there is one God. Good! Even the demons believe that—and shudder.” — James 2:19

    That’s uncomfortable.

    Because apparently it’s possible to have correct information about God and still not have faith in Him.

    The demons aren’t atheists.

    They know God exists.

    They know who Jesus is.

    Their theology on some points may be more accurate than ours.

    But they don’t trust Him.

    They don’t love Him.

    They don’t surrender themselves to Him.

    Knowing something is true isn’t the same thing as trusting it with your life.

    Think about a car.

    I can stand beside a car and believe everything necessary about it.

    That’s a car.

    It runs.

    It has gasoline.

    It’s mechanically sound.

    It’s capable of taking me from Indiana to Florida.

    I can sincerely believe every one of those things.

    But if I never get in the car, I’m not going to Florida.

    At some point, belief has to become trust.

    I have to get in.

    That’s the distinction James is making.

    Then what about the works?

    This is where we can easily get the order backward.

    James isn’t saying:

    Faith + enough good works = salvation.

    He’s saying that genuine faith does something.

    Not because we’re frantically trying to prove we’re Christians.

    Not because God is keeping a heavenly scorecard.

    Not because we need to pay Jesus back for saving us.

    Works don’t create saving faith.

    They flow from it.

    When we begin trusting Christ, the Holy Spirit begins changing us.

    Our attitudes begin to change.

    What matters to us begins to change.

    The way we see other people begins to change.

    Our relationship with sin begins to change.

    What we do with our time, abilities, resources, relationships, and opportunities begins to change.

    Not perfectly.

    Not all at once.

    And certainly not identically in every Christian.

    But living faith doesn’t remain completely disconnected from the life of the person who possesses it.

    That’s why James gives such a practical example.

    Suppose someone is hungry and doesn’t have adequate clothing. We see the need and say:

    “Go in peace; keep warm and well fed.”

    And then we walk away.

    James essentially asks:

    What good did our words do?

    If I claim to love someone but can repeatedly look directly at their suffering without ever being moved toward them, there’s a disconnect between what I say I believe and what my life reveals.

    James isn’t asking whether we’ve accumulated enough charitable acts to qualify for heaven.

    He’s asking whether our professed faith is alive.

    Look at the people James chooses

    Then James gives us two examples of faith accompanied by action.

    Abraham.

    And Rahab.

    That’s quite a pair.

    Abraham trusted God when God asked something of him that made absolutely no sense from a human perspective.

    God had promised him descendants through Isaac—and then told Abraham to offer Isaac.

    Abraham obeyed.

    Not because Abraham was earning his salvation.

    He acted because he trusted the One who had made the promise.

    His action revealed his faith.

    And then there’s Rahab.

    Rahab was a prostitute.

    If James were trying to teach us that good moral behavior makes someone acceptable to God, Rahab would be an awfully strange example to choose.

    But that’s exactly the point.

    Rahab heard what God had done.

    She believed Israel’s God was truly God.

    And then she entrusted herself to that truth.

    She protected the spies.

    She took a risk.

    Her belief changed what she did.

    Neither Abraham nor Rahab is presented as someone who accumulated enough good deeds to impress God.

    Their actions revealed where their trust was placed.

    This isn’t a call to spiritual paranoia

    There is a danger when we talk about examining the fruit of our faith.

    We can become so focused on ourselves that we start taking our spiritual temperature every fifteen minutes.

    Did I do enough today?

    Am I changing fast enough?

    Would a real Christian still struggle with this?

    Do I have enough fruit?

    And suddenly we’ve created another to-do list.

    We’re staring at ourselves instead of Christ.

    That’s not the freedom of the gospel.

    James isn’t calling Christians to live terrified that salvation disappears every time we fail.

    And he’s certainly not teaching that Christians become perfect.

    Abraham wasn’t perfect.

    Rahab wasn’t perfect.

    Peter wasn’t perfect.

    Paul wasn’t perfect.

    We’re not going to be either.

    The question isn’t:

    “Have I finally become good enough?”

    You haven’t.

    Neither have I.

    That’s why we need Jesus.

    The better question is:

    “Is the faith I profess actually trust in Christ—or is it merely information I agree with?”

    Because those aren’t the same thing.

    Living things bear fruit

    Maybe the simplest way to understand James is to think about something alive.

    You don’t tape apples onto an apple tree to make the tree alive.

    A living tree produces fruit because it’s alive.

    The fruit doesn’t give the tree life.

    The life produces the fruit.

    That’s the relationship between faith and works.

    Our works don’t make us alive in Christ.

    But when Christ makes us alive, something begins growing.

    Sometimes slowly.

    Sometimes unevenly.

    Sometimes with seasons that look more fruitful than others.

    There will be pruning.

    There will be setbacks.

    There will be sin to confess and things God exposes that we’d rather He didn’t.

    There will be plenty of reminders that we still desperately need grace.

    But there will be life.

    And life eventually shows itself.

    So maybe James 2 isn’t primarily asking us:

    “Are you doing enough?”

    Maybe it’s asking something deeper:

    Do I simply believe things about Jesus—or am I trusting Him?

    Has what I believe begun affecting how I live?

    When I see someone in need, am I becoming more willing to move toward them?

    Is the Holy Spirit changing what I love, what I value, and what I’m willing to surrender?

    Not perfectly.

    Not to earn anything.

    But because faith isn’t simply knowing the right answers.

    Saving faith rests its weight on Jesus.

    And when we actually entrust ourselves to Him, eventually that trust finds its way into our hands, our feet, our relationships, our choices, and our lives.

    Faith is belief activated.

  • When Grace Becomes a To-Do List

    Grace sounds wonderful.

    Until we start trying to improve it.

    Most Christians would never say that Jesus isn’t enough.

    We know the words.

    We are saved by grace through faith. We can’t earn salvation. Jesus paid the price. His work on the cross was sufficient.

    And then, somehow, a little word sneaks into the way we live:

    But.

    Jesus saved me, but now I need to prove I’m serious.

    God loves me, but I should probably be doing more.

    I’m saved by grace, but surely God is more pleased with me when I’m getting everything right.

    Jesus is enough…

    but.

    That little word is much closer to the problem Paul addresses in Galatians than we might realize.

    Jesus—and something else

    The believers in Galatia had heard the gospel.

    They had believed it.

    But then other voices came along and began adding requirements. Jesus was good, but Jesus alone wasn’t enough. They needed Jesus and the law.

    Paul doesn’t treat that like a minor theological disagreement.

    He calls it a distortion of the gospel.

    Because the moment we add something to Jesus as the basis of our standing before God, grace stops being grace.

    And we still do this.

    Our version may not involve circumcision or Jewish ceremonial law, but we’re remarkably good at creating Christian to-do lists.

    Read your Bible more.

    Pray longer.

    Serve more.

    Give more.

    Stop struggling with that sin.

    Be more disciplined.

    Be more spiritual.

    Try harder.

    Now, are any of those things necessarily bad?

    Of course not.

    I hope we read Scripture. I hope we pray and serve and give. I hope the Holy Spirit continues changing us and producing obedience in our lives.

    But there’s an enormous difference between doing those things because we belong to God and doing them so we’ll be acceptable to God.

    One is the fruit of grace.

    The other is an attempt to improve upon it.

    We can’t rescue ourselves

    Galatians opens with two words that are easy to skim past:

    Grace and peace.

    Not achievement and anxiety.

    Not effort and uncertainty.

    Grace and peace.

    Paul reminds the Galatians that Jesus “gave himself for our sins to rescue us.”

    Notice who does the rescuing.

    Jesus.

    We can’t rescue ourselves. He is rescuing us.

    And yet we keep trying to help.

    There’s something in us that wants a checklist. A checklist gives us something measurable.

    Did I read enough?

    Did I pray enough?

    Did I serve enough?

    Have I improved enough?

    Am I a better Christian than I was six months ago?

    And perhaps the question underneath all of those questions is:

    Is God okay with me yet?

    The gospel answers that question by pointing somewhere completely different.

    Not toward your performance.

    Toward Christ.

    Our peace with God rests on what Jesus has done, not on how impressive our Christian life has looked this week.

    That’s why adding our performance to the gospel doesn’t strengthen it.

    It diminishes the finished work of the cross.

    But doesn’t obedience matter?

    Absolutely.

    And this is where grace can make us nervous.

    If we tell people that they don’t have to earn God’s love, won’t they stop trying?

    If our behavior isn’t what makes us right with God, does our behavior even matter?

    Yes.

    But the order matters enormously.

    We don’t obey so that God will finally accept us.

    We obey because, in Christ, He already has.

    We don’t serve because we’re trying to pay Jesus back.

    Grace isn’t a loan.

    We don’t pursue holiness because we’re terrified that one bad week might make God reconsider the whole arrangement.

    We pursue Christ because we’ve been made His.

    The Christian life isn’t:

    Jesus saved me. Now I’d better make myself worthy of it.

    It’s:

    Jesus saved me. Now I get to live from the freedom of knowing I never could have made myself worthy of it.

    That doesn’t make obedience less important.

    It changes where obedience comes from.

    The gospel isn’t a beginner lesson

    Sometimes we treat grace as though it’s Christianity 101.

    We learn that we’re sinners, Jesus died for us, salvation is by grace through faith—and then we graduate to the serious Christian stuff.

    Now we need discipline.

    Now we need obedience.

    Now we need spiritual growth.

    And without realizing it, the gospel becomes something we needed at the beginning rather than the truth we live in every day.

    But we never graduate from grace.

    The same Jesus who saved us is the Jesus we need today.

    And tomorrow.

    And on the day when our Bible has stayed closed longer than we’d like to admit.

    And on the day when we’ve prayed beautifully and served everybody and feel pretty good about ourselves.

    Actually, we may need to remember grace especially on that day.

    Because legalism doesn’t only tell us we’re failing.

    Sometimes it tells us we’re succeeding.

    Either way, it gets our eyes off Jesus and onto ourselves.

    Jesus plus nothing

    Paul’s language in Galatians 1 is strong because the gospel matters that much.

    Jesus doesn’t need our additions.

    We don’t need Jesus plus perfect church attendance.

    Jesus plus theological knowledge.

    Jesus plus the right spiritual habits.

    Jesus plus a cleaned-up life.

    Jesus plus our ability to prove that we’re taking Him seriously.

    We need Jesus.

    And when we really begin to understand that, something surprising happens.

    Grace doesn’t make us care less about how we live.

    It frees us to live differently for the right reason.

    Not fear.

    Not comparison.

    Not image management.

    Not an attempt to make God owe us something.

    Love.

    Gratitude.

    Freedom.

    And maybe that’s worth asking ourselves:

    Has following Jesus quietly become a to-do list?

    Do I believe God is more willing to love me on my best spiritual day than on my worst one?

    When I fail, do I run toward Christ—or immediately start making plans to do better so I can feel acceptable again?

    Am I trusting in Jesus, or in Jesus plus the version of myself I think I ought to become?

    Paul knew something about that.

    He had once built his life around religious achievement and zeal. And God completely redirected him. The man who had once tried to destroy the church became someone who proclaimed the grace he’d once opposed.

    That’s what grace does.

    It doesn’t tell us to clean ourselves up enough for God to use us.

    It tells us that Jesus is enough.

    So put down the scorecard.

    Stop trying to pay back a gift.

    And when grace starts turning into a to-do list again—and it probably will—go back to the gospel.

    Jesus plus nothing.

    Because nothing you add can improve upon a finished work.

  • Press On: When Going Back Feels Safer

    Years ago, my sons planned a two-day backpacking trip in southern Indiana. They were seventeen and almost twenty, and the trip was my oldest son’s birthday gift to his younger brother.

    They planned for weeks. They knew it would be hot, so they packed extra water. They had a route. They knew there was a pond along the trail where they could refill what they carried.

    Then they made one decision that changed the trip.

    They left the extra water in the car.

    Why carry all that weight when there was water ahead?

    Except the terrain was much steeper and harder than they expected. The hike took longer. Their water ran out. And they couldn’t find the pond.

    The next day my oldest son called me from the top of a hill where he’d managed to get cell service. The joking phone call I expected wasn’t what I got. There was panic in his voice. His brother was severely dehydrated, hallucinating, and struggling to stay awake.

    They thought they were less than a mile from the pond.

    The car was about ten miles behind them.

    But from where they stood, they couldn’t see the pond.

    So they turned around.

    My oldest son eventually carried his brother and both backpacks much of the way back.

    The pond had been there.

    They just couldn’t see it from where they were standing.

    And because they couldn’t see what was ahead, the road behind them felt safer—even though it was much farther away.

    I’ve thought about that day many times since.

    Because sometimes the hardest part of moving forward isn’t that we don’t know where we’ve been. It’s that we do.

    Behind us is familiar. We know the terrain. We know what happened there. Even when it was difficult, at least we know what we’re walking back toward.

    Ahead of us can feel very different.

    We may believe God is leading us forward and still reach a hill where we can’t see what comes next.

    And that’s often where the temptation to turn around gets strongest.

    Paul knew something about leaving things behind.

    In Philippians 3, Paul describes everything that once gave him confidence—his heritage, his religious credentials, his obedience to the law, his reputation. If anyone had reason to build an identity around what he had accomplished, Paul did.

    And then he says that compared with knowing Christ, none of it could be his confidence anymore.

    Later in the chapter he writes:

    “Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal…” — Philippians 3:13–14

    Paul isn’t pretending his past didn’t happen. He talks about it openly.

    But he refuses to let what is behind him determine the direction he travels now.

    That’s an important distinction.

    There are things behind us that need to be remembered. There are things we need to grieve, learn from, repent of, heal from, or simply acknowledge as part of our story.

    Forgetting what is behind doesn’t require denying any of that.

    It means the past doesn’t get to become our destination simply because it’s familiar.

    Sometimes perseverance looks remarkably ordinary.

    We tend to imagine perseverance as something dramatic—great faith in impossible circumstances, enormous courage, unwavering certainty.

    Often it looks much smaller than that.

    It looks like taking the next faithful step when you still can’t see the pond.

    It looks like opening Scripture again when you’re confused.

    Praying when you don’t know what to say.

    Obeying what God has already made clear while you’re waiting for clarity about what He hasn’t.

    Showing up again.

    Asking for help.

    Refusing to confuse familiar with faithful.

    Paul says twice in Philippians 3 that he presses on. He hasn’t arrived. He isn’t spiritually complete. His circumstances aren’t easy. But his direction is settled.

    He’s moving toward Christ.

    And maybe that’s the question perseverance asks us:

    Not, “Can I see everything ahead?”

    But, “Which direction am I going?”

    There will be hills that distort our view.

    There will be moments when what God is doing isn’t obvious and when turning around feels more reasonable than continuing.

    There may even be moments when the road behind us looks comforting simply because we’ve already survived it.

    But familiar isn’t necessarily safe.

    And unseen doesn’t mean absent.

    My sons couldn’t see the water they desperately needed.

    It was still there.

    So when you reach the hill and can’t see very far beyond it, you don’t have to manufacture certainty you don’t have.

    You don’t have to pretend you’re fearless.

    You don’t even have to know exactly what the rest of the road looks like.

    Keep your eyes on Christ.

    Take the next faithful step.

    And press on.

  • No Masks Allowed: The Freedom of Being Honest

    Why is it so hard to admit when we’ve messed up?

    We know we’re sinners. We believe in grace. We tell other people that Jesus forgives.

    And yet sometimes three little words—I was wrong—feel almost impossible to say.

    Maybe it’s because honesty makes us vulnerable.

    What will they think of me?

    Will they still trust me?

    Will they look at me differently?

    What happens if someone knows the part of me I’ve been trying so hard to keep hidden?

    So we learn to wear masks.

    Not literal ones, of course. Christian ones.

    We learn how to look okay. We know what to say. We can show up at church, smile, worship, talk about what God is doing—and quietly make sure nobody gets close enough to see the things we’re ashamed of.

    But James gives us a very different picture of Christian community.

    In James 5:13–20, he talks about people who are suffering, people who are joyful, people who are sick, people who have sinned, and people who have wandered from the truth.

    In other words, he describes real people living real lives.

    And right in the middle of that passage he says:

    “Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.” — James 5:16

    That can sound terrifying.

    Confess our sins to each other?

    Some of us are perfectly comfortable confessing privately to God. After all, He already knows.

    But telling another person?

    That’s different.

    Confession isn’t about earning forgiveness

    This matters.

    We don’t confess so that God will finally decide to forgive us.

    Jesus already accomplished what was necessary for our forgiveness at the cross. Confession doesn’t earn grace.

    We confess because we already have grace.

    Confession is simply refusing to hide what is true.

    It’s admitting our sin honestly before God—and, when appropriate, before others—because we trust what Christ has done more than we trust our ability to protect our image.

    It’s about humility and restoration, not humiliation.

    And maybe that’s part of why James connects confession with healing.

    Sin loves secrecy.

    It tells us to hide.

    It convinces us that if people really knew us, we’d be rejected. So we conceal, minimize, justify, blame, and sometimes simply pretend.

    But hiding has a cost.

    Sin isolates. Confession restores.

    When our sin has hurt someone, confession opens the door to reconciliation.

    When we’re struggling privately, bringing something into the light can break the power secrecy has had over us.

    And when another believer knows the truth and responds by pointing us toward Christ instead of crushing us with shame, we’re reminded of something the gospel has been telling us all along:

    We were never saved because we managed to make ourselves look good.

    But does that mean we tell everyone everything?

    No.

    Christian honesty doesn’t mean indiscriminate vulnerability.

    Not everyone is a safe person.

    James describes confession happening in the context of a community that prays for one another. That’s important.

    A trustworthy Christian doesn’t hear someone’s confession and turn it into gossip. They don’t use vulnerability as ammunition later. They don’t respond with superiority.

    They pray.

    They point toward repentance when repentance is needed.

    They remind us of grace.

    They help us walk back toward Jesus.

    That means part of becoming a healthy Christian community isn’t simply learning how to confess.

    It’s learning how to receive someone else’s confession well.

    Would people feel safe telling us the truth?

    Can we hear about someone’s failure without immediately needing to tell someone else?

    Can we take sin seriously without treating the sinner as though grace suddenly stopped applying?

    Can we pray instead of judge?

    Those questions may tell us as much about our spiritual maturity as our willingness to confess our own sin does.

    Walking in the light

    First John gives us another beautiful picture:

    “But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin.” — 1 John 1:7

    Notice what happens in the light.

    Fellowship.

    Relationship.

    Grace.

    The gospel gives us the freedom to stop pretending.

    The cross has already told the truth about us: our sin was serious enough that Jesus had to die for it.

    But the cross also tells us something even greater:

    He did.

    We don’t have to convince anyone—including ourselves—that we’re better than we really are.

    Jesus already knows the truth.

    And He hasn’t asked us to build a life around protecting our image.

    He’s invited us to walk in the light.

    So maybe the question isn’t simply, Who do I need to confess something to?

    Maybe there are a few questions worth sitting with:

    What am I afraid would happen if someone really knew where I struggle?

    Is there something I’m hiding because protecting my image feels safer than bringing it into the light?

    Do I have trustworthy believers in my life with whom I can be honest?

    And maybe just as importantly:

    Am I becoming the kind of person someone else could safely be honest with?

    Because imagine what our churches, friendships, marriages, Bible studies, and discipleship relationships could look like if we really believed James 5:16.

    Less pretending.

    Less hiding.

    Less performing.

    More confession.

    More prayer.

    More grace.

    More people helping one another find their way back when they wander.

    No masks required.

    Just sinners who need Jesus, sitting together in the light.